Testing men?

topic posted Thu, July 19, 2007 - 9:51 AM by  Aschleigh
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I brought up the idea of how women test men on Ask a sexy man anything and it did not go over well.
I think we do it unconsciously. I know that if I call my man when I am feeling anxious and stressed , I want to know how he will deal with it.
Or eventually I need any man I am serious about to meet my neice and nephew and spend a day dealing with/ having fun with 2 kids.
How do you find yourself testing your mate, or being tested by your mate? David Deida seems to think it's a good thing ( the way of the superior man) That men grow from a challenge and women challenging their manhood is enevitable. What do you think?
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Aschleigh
Los Angeles
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  • Re: Testing men?

    Thu, July 19, 2007 - 6:06 PM
    Love is a true practice...it is more than an emotion for me it is something I do. I enjoy the challenges and as long as I am staying my course...my mission..my purpose everything is fine. Really you want a man who is not going to run in the face of a challenge from you or anyone else. If a man refuses that challenge he is simply not really being present with you...not in love or unsure of his mission...his purpose...
    My ex-wife has been a HUGE one for me and no matter what she throws at me or comments she makes to shake me I stand in front of her still Loving her as a woman I was once married to and a father to our son. It took a few years and the comments still come but now we can smile and have fun with our son. There is still Love there...not to be together but to honor what and who we are for our son.